Detailed Design to Bring your dream wedding to life.

San Diego Wedding Planners | Comprehensive Wedding Planning Services

Who We are

Clear communication and 20 years of above-and-beyond service is at our core, so you’ll always know what’s happening behind the scenes while you enjoy all the fun you should be having during your engagement. And our comprehensive approach to wedding management means that you have our full attention and assistance on every big and little element – whether it’s helping you select the right vendors and decor, or guiding you on the etiquette that keeps you looking gracious and confident all throughout your engagement. 

You’ve found the right person to share your life with…all you need now is the right planning partner to bring the joy back into this magical time of your life, and make your wedding day even better than you ever thought it could be. 

Say I Do… to a Thoughtfully Designed Wedding that’s Completely You

You’ve waited your whole life for this moment in time – when you say “I do” on the most beautiful and carefully planned wedding day. Every detail is so clear in your mind, and you can already picture you and your new spouse enjoying every moment of it. 

But how do you make sure that the flawless celebration you’re envisioning actually makes the leap from dreams to wedding day reality – especially with all the demands of your everyday life?

I Do…Weddings & Events is your wedding planning team for a celebration that perfectly reflects your own style and aesthetic, not anyone else’s. Our team of experienced planners and designers know exactly how to take your big dreams and turn it all into the gorgeous and timeless wedding day that you deserve. 

Schedule Your Call With Us Here

01.

Consultation

Schedule a call with us and share your wedding day vision – from vision boards and Instagram inspiration to your “what if…” ideas, we want to hear all about it and turn your dreams into reality. Let’s work together to create a celebration that’s uniquely you, filled with unforgettable moments and personal touches.

02.

Planning

In the months leading up to your big day, the I Do…Weddings & Events team will provide clear direction and support to select the right vendors and decor, create mockups of tabletop designs and more, schedule food tastings and walk-throughs, and anything else to help you feel supported and encouraged. 

03.

Finalizing

In the weeks leading up to your wedding, we’ll finalize every last detail – even the things you hadn’t thought of yet! You’ll also receive regular updates from our team and a full walk-through of your meticulously crafted wedding day timeline with every last piece accounted for, so you’re always confident that everything is on track.

04.

Wedding Day

It’s your wedding day – and even in your wildest dreams, it couldn’t be any more amazing. With our team by your side and taking care of everything, everyone will see you the way you’ve always wanted to be: cool, calm, and present, enjoying every moment of your impeccably designed and executed celebration with all your favorite people. You did it!

Our Couples say it Best

At ‘I Do… Weddings & Events,’ we believe every love story deserves to be celebrated in style. But don’t just take our word for it—hear from our happy couples who trusted us to make their wedding day truly magical. 

We have hundreds of 5 star review over the span of over 20 years from our happy clients. Their words inspire us to keep creating unforgettable celebrations filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories.

We Said Yes!

Whatever you are doing and wherever you are in your wedding planning process… book Melissa. She made my wedding a dream come true…

Melissa Tuvey

Founder of I Do… Weddings & Events

Melissa Barrad founded our boutique wedding firm in 2003. A San Diego native, her work has been featured in Modern Bride, Exquisite Weddings, Ceremony Magazine, San Diego Style Weddings, The Knot, Style Me Pretty, The Jewish Journal, and many other publications, blogs and websites.

Her portfolio boasts an impressive roster of events ranging from a ceremony in the heart of Africa, a sweet affair at a vintage hotel in Palm Springs, a sunset cocktail party overlooking La Jolla Shores at Scripps Seaside Forum, and a wedding complete with a petting zoo.

Melissa is confident that with her and her team of  “wedding magicians”, they can help plan and execute anything your heart desires.

Real Weddings

Taylor & Troy

When you think of the Martin Johnson House, you think of the Scripps Pier, the glittering blue water and the son coming through the cypress trees…

Kit & Evan

Tucked beneath a canopy of golden-blooming trees and surrounded by lush greenery, this venue brings the romance and magic of a European garden…

McKenna and Jack

When it comes to wedding venues, the Scripps Forum in La Jolla, California, is a true gem. Nestled by the beautiful Pacific Ocean with sweeping views of the coastline, the venue offers the perfect setting for a coastal-inspired celebration.

Pricing Packages

We offer a wide selection of wedding planning services in order to best fit your needs. If you do not see what you are looking for, we are more than happy to create a custom package for you.

$8,000

/ Starting Price

All-Inclusive Event Design

For the couple that desires assistance every step of the way, from location recommendations to budget management to event design, with everything in between!

What's included?

*Terms and Conditions apply

$5,000

/ Starting Price

Full-service coordination

For the couple that is looking for assistance and guidance throughout the process, but enjoys handling some of the details on their own. Additional meetings and fun extras may be added to this package to create a unique option expressly for you.

What's included?

*Terms and Conditions apply

$3,500

/ Starting Price

Wedding Management

A comprehensive package that will provide you support through the remainder of the planning process—not just the month prior! For the couple that have coordinated many of the major details of their dream day, yet desires assistance with details, logistics and bringing all of the small touches together. 

What's included?

*Terms and Conditions apply

$1,900

/ Starting Price

Day-Of / Execution

(Available 2 Months Prior To Your Date)

For the couple who has selected all of their vendors, and are looking for help with simple execution and logistics on the wedding day.  Running your rehearsal, setting up your personal decor items, and keeping you on a timeline are all included.

What's included?

*Terms and Conditions apply

Inquire

/ Pricing Varies

Floral Design

For the couple who needs assistance with their vision and style, and of course keeping each budget specifically in mind. All of our design services are completely custom. We look forward to getting to know you, and bringing your vision to life in the most spectacular way.

What's included?

*Terms and Conditions apply

Need a custom pricing plan?

treat yourself to a fun and stress free engagement.

We’d be thrilled to connect with you and hear all about your wedding plans, needs, and budget! Whether you have a clear vision or just starting to dream, our team is here to listen, guide, and bring your ideas to life. Your big day deserves to be unforgettable, and we’re dedicated to making every detail perfect, ensuring the planning process feels as seamless and exciting as the celebration itself. Let’s start turning your vision into reality—schedule a chat with us today! 

 

Frequently Asked Questions

We know that planning a beautiful event isn’t something that people do everyday.  But we do.  And we are here to share our experiences, and answer any questions you might have.

A conversation over the phone or video, will help get the ball rolling. We’d love to hear about your love story, how you became engaged, where you are in the wedding planning process, and your expectations of your event planner. We’ll share images, insights to your venue and hear about what is important to you. We always want to see your pictures and inspiration, hear about your guest list and vision, and even meet your fiancee, family or friends.

When you inquire via our website, email, phone, or via social media, you’ll be connected with an I Do…Weddings partner that we feel is a good fit for you. Ideally, we’d love to chat with you, hear about your vision, personality, and style to ensure a great fit. All of the members of the I Do…Weddings & Events family have considerable event planning experience–from weddings to charity events and runway shows to bridal showers…we do it all! We are lucky to have a very diverse team that excels in different areas, and we feel it shows!

As soon as you get engaged is recommended. Dates are booked well in advance and the sooner we begin planning, the better! If you are interested in Partial Planning or Wedding Management,  we recommend booking as soon as you have secured your date & venue.

A venue coordinator oversees the on site staff, to make sure they are fulfilling their contractual obligations, serving food on time, etc. A lot of times the venue coordinator is not there for the duration of the event &/or they have other events they are overseeing on property during the same time. A wedding coordinator works only for you to make every aspect run smoothly, greet all your vendors, send out a timeline prior, make sure you are having a great time celebrating and to ensure that your vision has become a reality. We explain that the difference between a venue planner and a wedding planner is back of the house versus front of the house at a restaurant.

Our planners plan 10-30 weddings a year, depending on service level and scope.  Historically, each planner plans a max of 3 events per month, putting the focus on the relationship between our team and you.

With over 22 years of experience, and almost 1000 weddings under our belt, we’ve seen it all! We have established relationships with venues and vendors, we have a reputation of creativity, kindness and organization.